Almost a year have passed and I haven’t been updating my blog. I have forgotten about it and after stumbling on another blog, I decided to continue writing my blog.
To summarize what I have been doing for that last 11 months, study and socialize. I have always been bad at making new friends and starting new conversations with new people. But after a few months realizing that I haven’t been in any of new groups to hang out with, which I know sounds pathetic, I decided to suck up all my fears and started conversations with strangers. At first I was awkward and could not come up with topics to talk about other than what we were already talking about, but with practice and courage, I manage to find a new group of friends here. Courage is the key.
I have always been scared of meeting new people ever since I was young, I like to be in my own circle of friends, which in the beginning of my university year I was excited to meet new people. But after arriving here, it’s a scary place. Especially when you’ve got no one around.
Anyway, last night I was hanging out with my friends and we were talking about how to get guys. Is it physical looks? Or is it personality? People would say that looks are just looks, they won’t make them stay. Personality does. But they won’t know your personality unless they get to know you. The problem is how to make them want to get to know you.
The funny thing is, she has been asking around about why she hasn’t got any boyfriend yet. Some say that she’s not feminine enough and that she should wear some make up, some say it’s because she’s too friendly. That made her think about changing her looks. But why wear something that makes you uncomfortable? Besides, what you wear expresses you. Maybe wearing simple clothes is good. And don’t guys like girls be all natural?
My answer is- Men are intimidate by her. She is smart, witty, funny and not bad looking at all. And she started laughing. And then I said:” You just need to find chemistry. When you have that, you just need timing.